Whether you breastfeed, bottle feed, express or do a bit of everything, your baby being fed and loved is what matters. Watch for early hunger cues — rooting, sucking on hands, smacking lips — and try to catch them before the cry.
Six or more wet nappies in 24 hours from around day 5 is often a useful sign feeds are landing. Cluster feeding (more frequent feeds, often in the evening) is normal and is not usually a sign of low supply.
If feeding hurts past the first few seconds of latch, if you have cracked or bleeding nipples, or if baby is sleepy at the breast, speak to a midwife, health visitor or lactation consultant. Open the Baby Help Hub for our Feeding Support Basics guide.
Some babies bring up wind quickly. Others need more time. If baby seems squirmy, pulls their knees up, or arches after a feed, a couple of minutes of upright winding often helps.
Try over the shoulder, sitting on your lap, or across your lap tummy-down — different positions move air differently. If nothing has come up after two minutes, it is okay to stop. A content baby does not always need to burp.
More on this in our how to wind a baby guide.
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The full step-by-step — what to try, what to track, gentle reminders — is part of Calm Mum. Get All Access to read the rest. You'll also get the daily Today page, the Baby Help Hub, and the “What should I try next?” assistant.
The “When to seek help” section below is always available — safety information should never sit behind a paywall.
- Fever (37.5°C or higher in babies under 3 months; 38°C at any age)
- Difficulty breathing, laboured breathing, or blue lips
- A non-blanching rash (does not fade when pressed with a clear glass)
- Repeated or projectile vomiting, green or bloody vomit
- Refusing feeds for several hours or fewer wet nappies than expected
- Unusual drowsiness, floppiness, or a baby who is hard to wake
- You feel something is not right — trust your instincts
Frequently asked questions
What are the most useful new mum tips for the first few weeks?
Aim for the basics: feed on demand, sleep when you can (even short stretches), keep a water bottle and snacks within reach, accept practical help with meals and laundry, and stick to the back-to-sleep, firm-flat-clear-cot safe sleep guidance. Almost everything else can wait.
Is it normal to feel overwhelmed as a new mum?
Yes. Many new mums describe the early weeks as the hardest of their lives. Tearfulness around day 3–5 is common (often called the baby blues). Persistent low mood, intense anxiety, or thoughts of harm are different and worth a conversation with your GP, midwife or health visitor today — they are common and treatable.
How often should a newborn feed?
Most newborns feed 8–12 times in 24 hours. Cluster feeding in the evening is common and is usually not a sign of low supply. After day 5, six or more wet nappies in 24 hours is often a useful sign baby is getting enough.
When should I worry about my baby?
Contact a healthcare professional if baby has a fever (37.5°C or higher under 3 months; 38°C at any age), difficulty breathing, a non-blanching rash, repeated or green vomit, unusual drowsiness, fewer wet nappies than expected, or if something simply doesn't feel right. Trust your instincts.
What is the Calm Mum app?
Calm Mum is a practical digital guide for the first year with a new baby. It includes a Today page with daily insights, a Baby Help Hub for fussy babies, winding, teething, sleep and feeding, a Feed Tracker, and a Looking After You section for mum. It is educational support, not medical advice.
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